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Arranging the funeral When the death certificate has been issued by the Registrar, you will also be given a certificate authorising the funeral. The choice of a firm of funeral directors is important as you should feel comfortable and confident with them. They may be known to you personally, may be recommended by a friend, your GP or religious advisor or may just have a good reputation in your area. The Funeral Standards Council, the National Association of Funeral Directors and the Society of Allied and Independent Funeral Directors all have a code of practice and members trade bodies should give you an estimate of costs - their own and those fees they will pay on your behalf and add to the account. You can ask for this estimate in advance and it's a good idea to ask different firms to quote so that you can compare costs. It is important to check whether the dead person left any instructions with the Will about the funeral, or wished the body to be given for medical research, or organs to be donated for transplantation. If there is a Will, the executor has the right to decide whether it will be a burial or a cremation, whether the Will expresses a particular wish or not. If there is no Will, the next of kin should decide. It is important to check whether the deceased has already made arrangements for their own funeral, or carried funeral insurance. You will need to make early decisions about:
Then you can decide the arrangements at leisure. Your funeral diretor can make all the arrangements for the funeral, burial or cremation, religious or secular service. The funeral director can also advise on all the procedures and documents needed to register the death. If you are considering a headstone most cemeteries will advise to wait for a period of approximately six months before placing it. However , we suggest you contact your preferred choice of monumental mason as soon as possible to avoid any unnecessary delay after this waiting period. Costs and Charges The costs of a funeral fall into three main categories:
The ultimate cost will depend on your choices for the funeral and can range from under one thousand to several thousand pounds. If your funeral director is a member of the Funeral Standards Council, they have a duty to explain clearly to you what the options are and how much they cost so that you are fully informed about the choices you make. Burial Everyone has a right to be buried in the churchyard of the parish in which they die - assuming that one exists, and that there is space left. If the dead person has paid for a grave space in the churchyard, there will be a document called a 'faculty' in existence, and you will need to produce this. With a family grave, there will be a fee for opening it up, for moving headstones, and for additional inscriptions on an existing headstone. If the dead person wanted to be buried outside the parish where they lived, the permission of the local clergy must be sought, and can be refused, unless there is space in an existing grave that the family intended for the dead person. The charge is likely to be higher than that for a parishioner. There is normally a fee charged for digging the grave. There may be a further charge if you wish to purchase the exclusive right of burial. This means that no further burials can take place in that grave without your permission. In many areas, you need to purchase the exclusive right of burial if you want to put up a memorial. There are alternatives to burial in a churchyard or cemetery, such as burial in a vault, burial at sea and woodland burials. Many bereaved people take comfort from placing belongings such as photographs and letters in the coffin with the person they have lost. It may also be your wish that they are dressed in their own clothing. And that the coffin is decorated to reflect an interest or pastime they may have enjoyed. In a burial, there are fewer restrictions about possessions, clothing and decoration than in a cremation. Cremation Before a cremation can take place three statutory forms have to be completed, one by next of kin, the others by two different doctors. Each of the doctors is entitled to a fee. One will be the doctor who has attended the person in their last illness who must see the body before completing the form, and another doctor who must also see the body. When a coroner has issued a certificate for cremation, no other doctors are required to certify, and the coroner's certificate is free. A final document is signed by another doctor, who is the medical referee to the crematorium. They must receive the above certificates the day before the cremation is due to take place. The fee for this usually comes as part of the crematorium fee. Most crematoria incorporate a service chapel. You may wish to use this if you don't want to hold the service itself in a church or other location. Or you may choose to use the crematorium for committal only. You may wish to consider music to be played. Commonly, crematoria provide one or more of the following:
Many crematoria include scattering or burying the ashes in a garden of remembrance in their fee. If a relative wants to collect the ashes they can be collected or sent, but they will only be kept free for a time (usually about a month) - a charge will be made after that time. Some churches are happy to scatter the ashes in the graveyard or bury them according to the family's wishes. Select an option from below, or follow the 'next >>' and '<< previous' links to navigate through all the options. |
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